Talking Yourself Into Success
I love talking to myself. I don’t always have the nicest things to say, but when I do, I am unstoppable. The trick is figuring out those buzz words that work for you that get you out of bed and into the gym, focused on your mission and eating your food like an Olympic athlete. Sometimes the not so nice things are what gets me motivated, and sometimes I need a good old fashioned glob of positivity to help me through the day.
How can you find those words that really resonate and fit with you that offer optimal levels of inspiration? I have a few ideas…
1. Start Where You Are:
There really is nothing worse than a well intended motivational message that energetically doesn’t resonate with you. If you are just starting a new goal and you don’t yet believe you can do it, saying you are the Ms. Olympia Champion is most likely not going to inspire you. Instead, take your message one step beyond where you currently are at energetically. For example, let’s say you have a new goal, but it is something you have never done before. Maybe you are going to take up Marathoning, or maybe you want to try a figure competition. The goal seems exciting and scary at the same time. You want to believe in yourself. You are not quite there yet, but you want it. Say to yourself: “I want to believe.” This is the first step. Then when you start feeling like it is possible, bump it up a bit, say to yourself: “I got this.” Can you feel the difference in energy from the first one to the second? There is more confidence in the second one, but don’t be afraid to start where you are, and for it to be ok where you are.
2. Know Where You Are Going:
Even though your goal may be far off in the distance, tap into and connect with the energy of how you will want to eventually feel. Have an energetic end goal if you will. We all have goals of what we want, but what about how we want to feel along the way. I never had a bad ending to an awesome journey. So really connect with where you are going energetically, so you can recognize it when you get there.
3. Create Visual Reminders:
It is easy to forgot what we want to say to ourselves without visual reminders. Put a sticky note on your bathroom mirror, wear a bracelet or ring with your message on it. Put the message somewhere you can see it so you can remind yourself of it and continue to say the word or phrase in your head over and over throughout the day.
4. Remember to Upgrade:
Once your message no longer has the juice anymore to get you going, it is time for an upgrade. Create a new message that is the next step closer to your goal. Keep on upgrading. If you can’t think of any ideas, look to some of your role models and get some ideas from them.
I hope you found this helpful. Be sure to check out the link below for my new Silver Coaching Program. Have a great month of February.
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